I try not to mention her--she's a good woman who just constantly puts me and anything related to me down. Always has, from my handwriting to my lack of friends in school to my parenting skills (I commited a major sin....when Kait was in second grade she wanted to wear two different color socks to school and I LET HER!!)

You're right--my job is secure--they do need me....even though they don't appreciate me, they do need me. That is a positive (if I can keep from thinking what a mess my desk will be when I return!)