Ryan,

I am sorry that your going through a difficult period with your ex. Situations like that are never easy. Especially when deep feelings are involved. I know a little about your situation and I think it took a tremendous amount of courage to make the decision you made. Be proud of yourself. I know you may feel that you were a little harsh but you cant let the ex get the best of you. Putting your foot down was the best option in this situation. I am proud of you and you should be also. Please keep us posted. Take care.