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It really does sound like your husband wants to leave therapy because it is not going his way. Please remember that you have a responsibility to yourself to make decisions that are best for you, whatever that decision may be for you. I would keep going to therapy and try to get your hubby to also continue marriage counseling with you, I think with time that you will see what the best decisions are for you.