Yeah, I accept that people have differing views on the matter - all part of lifes rich tapestry.

I, in no way, defend the actions of the people I write to. I agree that we all have choices although I think being white and middle class 'choice' is an easy thing to discuss.

It's true certainly that in the past penfriends have told me what I wanted to hear but the people who are not genuine are fairly easy to spot.

Ultimatley and on a practicle level I personally don't think a focus souly on retribution works - when people come out of prison worse than when they went in it doesn't benefit anyone.

Personally I don't think people are born good or bad rather that we learn behaviour - this isn't to take away responsibility from the individual but too understand that some people simply do not know any better. Others succumb to greed or drugs many of whom readily admit their mistakes.