My daughter definately needs grief counseling, the detective even called one to our house they day I found him...... she would say nothing. Since then she insists she is fine. Other family members insisted she move away to start over and forget about him. That is what she chose. Now they constantly comment on her behavior and continue to make excuses for her actions.
As for volunteering, my T suggested this as well. I have a terrible fear of new places and people so I figured it would just make things worse.
Thank you for the suggestions.
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Originally Posted by bebop
first let me say I am so sorry for all you are going thru. how horrible it must be to find someone like that. I think your daughter really needs grief counseling. have you thought about voluntering during the holidays to keep you busy instead of bad stuff? soup kitchen type things or maybe even go to a nursing home and sit with some people that may not have a visitor? please try not to do the bad things.  |