Oh my gosh I think I might go crazy. My boyfriend is just as moody as me! If not more so. He will wake up one day, Ill ask him to hand me my cigarettes and he will be fine. But then another day he'll say "got anymore orders to bark at me?"

One day Ill pick food off his plate and get a smile or a laugh, another day he'll flip.

Today (on christmas!) he freaked on me because he called, I didnt answer bc I was eating with my family, then texted him "whats up?" assuming there was a specific reason for him to call, not just to say hello. So he went psycho on me asking why I sent him a "half-assed" text instead of calling him back to talk for 5 minutes. Then.... less than an hour later he's not mad anymore and acts like nothing happened!

Im not sure how much of this I can take. Half the time I just wait a few minutes and say "are you done being mad and grump about nothing?". Then he denies it. And 10 minutes later he apologizes. But its very aggravating not knowing how he will take any comment or joke or anything. And its impossible to know what mood he's in until I say something to him and see how he reacts.

Can I bring this up to him how moody he is? Im afraid he'll take offense and just get mad (and moody!) towards me. He denies how moody he is all the time but never realizes how often he has to say "Im sorry for overreacting/being grumpy with you". Ugh!