Thank you all so much for your kind words. It will be a complex process and I have already consulted a 24 hour crisis helpline here in Australia so I can work through some of my own pain and in turn be a better support for my son and my sons fathers girlfriend. I feel she will also need me over the next few weeks as there will be a coroners examination and autopsy. I also have an excellent psychologist and psychiatrist who would probably be happy to provide counseling for my son and I if he needs a group setting. Thats all I am thinking of at the moment is my sons mental and emotional safety. God give me the strength to provide it.