I can relate to all of your replies. I have the same problem w/my bf. At one time he was very loving, caring,considerate,supportive...no more. He's now antagonistic, berating,belittling,confusing,angry,uncaring,unsupportive & I don't think he loves me either. He's nice one minute&nasty the next. I'm glad I looked at this thread-it's letting me know that it isn't just me as my bf claims. I have mental problems&he blames every bad thing that happens on me. I thought I was doing something wrong. It's not me-it's him-he's a man. He never cares how much he's hurt me either. My mistake is not standing up for myself more because I was trying to avoid fights. He's going to behave badly no matter what I do. Last night I asked him if he cared about me&he said"Stop attacking me!" Sound familiar?