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hi internettie,
it was not a great Christmas for us either. i've struggled with keeping up the house as i have chronic pain issues and depression difficulty.
would it be possible for you to get a bit of housecleaning help? it would give him a solution and the help would maybe ake it a bit easier for you to try some to make it a home not just a messy house.
i think when i let it get so messy my husband sees that as a lack of love for him, rather than my struggles inside with pain and depression.
i paid my daughter before Christmas to come in an strike a blow for liberty in the 3 most needed areas of kitchen and bathrooms and after the break when she can she's gonna help me declutter where it will be easier for me to keep it decent. i think it will help him some too.
i hope you can find something that will help you become closer to your mate and help him deal with his longing for his children.
leslie and her pixies
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