(((((((((((((muffy))))))))))))) I understand. It's hard when our children have stuff going on. We have had many struggles with son in the past here. I have gotten so overwhelmed and frustrated before. With my son, saying things often makes him more overwhelmed and so I have to be very careful of what I say and the tone with which I say it, but then that means I hold it in and stuff it down, which makes it hard for me. Sometimes it feels like a no win situation. Hang in there muffy. We'd like to be here if you need a shoulder.