I think counselling is a great idea. I know for me when I was depressed and my anxiety attacks were outta control I totally withdrew from everyone and everything. I hated talking unless I had too. My hubby used to try and ask me what I was going through. Although, I know he really didnt understand I did let him in on what was going on with me. It was hard though. Its always hard to explain to someone who doesnt suffer from this what is going on because they just dont get it. I think it's a positive that your spouse wants to attempt therapy with you. I asked my hubby to go and he said NO. I dont think he said NO cause he doesnt love me. I think it was because he is uncomfortable with the whole situation.