I'm so sorry your friend was ridiculously unthoughtful! I totally agree with bebe. I have two good friends who do this sort of thing to me all the time and I hate it! I know what u are going through, its so unfortunite that it had to happen during the holiday season! Bottom line though, people who treat others this way may not be real friends. Bebe is right you should talk to this person. She may not realize how hurtful these actions actually are. Whatever the outcome, please know your are not alone. My good friends live far away as well and I feel very lonley at times with friends like this, however I have recently found a friend I think is very kind and thoughtful, I'm sure u will too if u go out and meet new people who might be better worth your time. I joined a gym...I think its a great way to meet people. I do really feel for you though and I'm so sorry you were left hanging on Xmas. I would NEVER do that to a friend!