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Dec 28, 2008, 12:28 PM
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Member Since: Jul 2007
Posts: 4,156
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Quote:
Originally Posted by pinksoil
I think that the healthy aspect of what comes out of transference is becoming aware that our Ts aren't going to get up and leave, or kick us out because of our reactions/interactions.
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Not sure if this addresses or answers this line of thinking ,, but here goes ;
( example ) >>>..I was told most of my young life " I was worthless and would amount to nothing "
Now if I did not question that and find some backbone of my own >> then I would blindly follow the next best thing to come down the pike ....
Instead I chose to say " Take me as I am >> or not ".
I sure as heck was not put on this earth to please all just to feel validation.
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