I mean she has Narcissistic Personality Disorder. I base this on what I've learned at http://www.halcyon.com/jmashmun/npd/traits.html The most problematic trait is that she lacks empathy. I thank you for asking. We came through a tough childhood. I chose therapy; she chose her own reality. I have struggled to learn how to protect myself emotionally and establish boundaries, but she feels entitled (another psych term) to my time and resources.