Hi everyone!
I am new here...
I would like to ask some advise on how can i walk away from a guy who is destroying my life? We are together for 2 years and we live in a small city. he says i am not his girlfriend and i shouldnt expect anything from him. at the same time he is asking every detail of my life, demanding explanations, getting angry if i am not there for him....
he wants to read my emails and check my msn. he wants to check my cell phone.....in the begining i let him.....but now, i say that i will let him do that if he let me see his things as well.....then he says that he will never allow and that our "relationship" is not a democracy.....
he never introduced one of his friends....we never go out together....
he travels "alone" all the times, even though he knows i dont have any other plans and that I would like to go with him...
He says he likes me but I am starting to doubt it...i thing he cheats a lot on me...
I dont have any advantage from being with him.....I dont want to spend the rest of my life with someone so mean and dirty like he is.... but somehow (and that is my real problem) i just cannot be away from him....he doesnt threat me or does anything stupid.....when we fight and we are apart it seems he enjoys my absence.... why cant i enjoy too? i dont like him and he is just ruining my life. i have lost many friends and opportunities because i was with him....
please tell me, what should i do?
Thanks