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Originally Posted by cantstopcrying
my dad stepped in and was very angry at me and said, "what are you going to do...keep your kids from her? That will kill her. You know she doesn't mean any harm by it. You will not do that to her...I didn't raise you to just cut your mother out of your life."
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I want to kick your dad's butt too! It doesn't matter what she means to do! What matters is what is happening and what it is doing to you! All the issues that you bring here to discuss CSC resulted from this treatment by your mom. All your doubts about yourself, your fears of getting close to others because you have low self worth, they came from this treatment by your mom, the person who is supposed to love and nurture you. I don't know about you CSC, but I'm pissed now. Anger just might be what can empower you so that you can tell this woman what she needs to hear!
I'll bet she was treated this way or something? Her behavior towards you is more about her than it is about you. She has to cut you down because it must meet some need of hers?
And BTW, we are about the same size. I'm 5'8" and weigh 174. I'm probably bigger than you and my husband loves me anyways (and I love myself anyways too!). This size is chunky but it isn't obese!