Wow!! I feel exactly the same sometimes!! When I first started trying really, really hard with recovery, and still now sometimes, I would feel like people were just trying to make it even harder for me, that they weren't making any effort to make it any easier for me.. I mean.. I'm still in the beginnings, but after 42 days of no SI, I'm starting to feel really proud of myself and soon, things will get easier for you, I promise..

You're seeing things like this because you're highly sensitive at the moment and you're subconsciously expecting everyone else to adjust to your needs and know that you're finding it difficult, but people that don't know you, won't.. I know exactly how you feel about screaming profanities at this woman, I'm the same! But maybe just a calm, "This really doesn't help my mood" or something like that, might help her to see the error of her ways, something along those lines should help.

I hope things begin to feel easier for you very soon

take care of yourself x