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Originally Posted by I_WMD
The only thing I can remember as to Freud is ,,,, ID / EGO / Super EGO .
As far as * T * goes and being able to open up and tell all >>. heck , that is easy . But ,,,, if he started to feel sorry for me or absorbed any of my pain or hurt in anyway ...?
I would take the notepad and ask him if the couch or chair would be better ,, and then say " So what brings you here " ?
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I can understand that reaction, this is where boundaries come in and the T is supposed to explain that you are not responsible for them and what they feel. Many times I have caught myself trying to protect T from my emotions and she has had to remind me that it wasn't my job to do so, it is scary to share something on such a deep level.
I am sending you many safe hugs.
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