"Thanks ,,, but I know somehow the past should not interfere with the present or future ." Quote WMD

Who said that WMD?
How can it not? Our upbringing shaped our mental being.
It's not that it will never affect our present but somehow through work we can see beyond that, build some sense of security for ourselves. What ever that healing may mean to you. Healing is different for everyone.

That why I be a survivor ,,, count on only one person ,,,Me. Quote WMD

No you learned to only count on one person because it was safer that way. I assure there are more out there who can be trusted, you just have to find the right ones.

hangingon,,,, I am simply being logical ,, in those two thoughts of mine .