I agree with what kimmy said... b/c that's also what happened w/me with what I had mentiond with finding out about my cousin/husband.

The thing I also remember is ..being that he cheated with my cousin ..it's a lot more to digest.

Given the circumstances for you ..it's so much to digest and that's another reason why you are feeling the way you are. It's just too much to digest all at once.

Like kimmy says it's good to set yourself up with some supports.