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Dec 29, 2008, 06:51 PM
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Member Since: Jul 2007
Location: UK
Posts: 587
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.........I agree, theres no point in resurrecting the past unless theres a very good reason, and the right context, ..... but what you were beginning to describe does interest me... I couldnt work out what you meant, however, I got the senst you knew exactly what you were talking about.
further to your other post, one could ask, #" what brought you here?" (ive got my pad @ the ready. lol.)
I mean apart from to wake everyone up from the trance -ference, rescue them from the grips of ruthless Ts. and give me a link into the discussion, . 
and before you scramble for the pad and turn the question on me, I will defensively, answer the question in advance of you asking it.......
Im not sure why I'm here, but I'm kindof facinated, and drawn to here, theres lots of reasons, but one is eg. Pegasus says;
".......The Father of psychotherapy, Freud, is quoted to have said that all patients need to fall in love with their therapist... What he meant by that is there needs to be a bond of trust where the patient is truly able to discuss anything and everything in safety..........."
...and I fill up with horror. And that I've had something like that experience, and the results were not healthy for me. Others are fine with it.
theres somethin I need to learn to manage, with this huge difference between me and most others, always has been like that for me in groups specially, . .......
.........so, I have this dilemma, I long for contact, but to be true to myself often leads to feeling alienated. (Its called the schizoid dilemma by profs)
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