Yet you are telling him to look it up. I think much more comes from reading about people's real experiences.

Therapy relationships are often not as simple as-- I hurt, he helps. I care for my therapist deeply. Anger comes into the relationship a lot. Sometimes it is part of transference, sometimes I am genuinely angry at him. I feel like anger is just another part of the intimacy. Why would I bother getting angry at someone I don't care about?

I think the relationship is a lot more complex than that.