an afterthought Simcha, yes, i have been and continue to do therapy in my own way, through the experience of life, applying what ive learned so far and creating caring, growing relationships with others to the best of my ability always, everywhere i go, in real life, and here (trying anyway).. a simple rule i follow is that 'everyone is my teacher'... sometimes that puts the other in a place of not wanting to be my teacher.. i need to accept that and move on.. as the student, in class or on the grass, i am always learning, always processing, always asking and always searching... the answers are always right before my eyes, it is often only a matter of being still, and listening.. best to you again