im thinking on it Pachy, and yes, it is worth thinking about in a way, i suppose i feel that we each are authorities, at least of our own lives... we are responsible to ourselves as much as possible for our own well being.. that would include being aware of what and who and why a thing might be within our presence.. awareness of what enters our zone is the first step towards handling it i think.. many here are sensitive beings and a large part of this community is based on empathy and understanding, even in times of disagreement, we can give consideration and allow presences that may or may not have been invited.. that is reality not to be authoritative tho