hi kim and everyone, i was just on another thread having to do with attachments at the moment, i cant get over the overlay that seems to be happening at times... attachments?

well, ive done so much thinking on this... i am a strong purporter of attaching, there are several ways ive imagined that even those who are experiencing trust issues might choose to form healthy attachments.. for one, very few T's disagree that forming attachments is healthy.. it makes firm logical sense in addition to the emotional benefts...

imagine a community of people who were attached in a few common goals... less violence could be one choice, or, what if they wanted the healthiest babies in the area? it would become a competition of sorts and the prize of course is better health for all... even the losers could be winners...

Utopian thinking? not really, it may become a necessity.. as our conditions around us steam and build pressure, we need answers... disconnection seems the wrong direction... attachments, even for simple causes, create the form of community some of us might be searching for and hoping to establish... this would not be any form of supremacy or golden race, but a place with a focus on survival.... a community could decide for itself.... guess i need to win the lotto so i can start my own kingdom lol... just kidding..

kim, i really connect with the pain you feel, and the fear, about creating attachments but all this thinking made me try to become more like the people i looked up to most... they were friendly and kind.... thats about it.. that led me on and in time ive been able to understand better why attachments matter... you matter kim.. never forget that