Can you burn the card? That would make it physically impossible to exist, and the flames would and might be soothing to watch them slowly devour such an anhilistic card. My abuser passed away August 26th and sad to say yes all I feel is peace, peace of mind, peace of spirit, peace of place_ my home feels like home once more. I can live my life as I choose. I cannot and will not wish anyone harm of any sort yet when nature takes the life of your abuser one thanks nature.