I still cant decide whether I want to be with my ex ( husband) or not. The thing is if i tell him I dont want to be with him I've asked him nicely not to do anything with me or my family and move on as if nothing happened, but he's reluctant to do that either. If I tell him I want to move on with him not being around would be much easier for me to move on. He see's us being friends and I dont want that.

If I say or he say's we would to go back defentily things wont be the same between us and 2nd now that we've been seperated for 3 months i would have to wait another 2-3 year's just for him too get back on his feet and have a decent job. Meaning, I waisted time for nothing and putting my time and effort on somthing that's not there anymore. I'm stuck. I cant decide and seriously I dont know how i'm going to decide over this. And what makes it harder is that I have my friend telling me not to go through my divorce and try to make it work. Same thing goes with my family. Is there any easier way to decide on this?