(((deliquesce))

I believe in my heart there are other folks just like your Pdoc. Here's to believing in the good of people, the good of humanity(((((humanity)))((((group hug))))

As far as friends, yes there are 'uninformed idiots' they are out there and we can choose whether to make them our _close friends or _not.

I wanted to tell you this, that if you feel your situation will somehow be looked at as _you were somehow the cause of it well i think I mat be able to help you..

There are certain factual phrases one can use.

The first time I was date raped it happened with someone I worked with. Pause. The second and third times it was at at parties. Pause. The fourth time, pause address T you DO know it is possible for me to get date raped four times, T, it is a possibility am I wrong T my judgement in which parties to attend may have been a bit faulty yet T does a bad party chooser truly _ASK to be date raped no I do not think so T.

You can even ask your T if there was a remote possibility she would have had similiar situations have happened to her. It IS a remote possibility you could have had similiar things happen to you T I mean there is such a remote possibility am I wrong T?

What I am illustrating here is _assertiveness in therapy. Factualness.

(((((It was not you or something about you either)))))))))