You can have my sarcasm whenever you like LOL. As far as stopping those annoying people at the meetings, just be honest and say I'm ok for now, I'll ask for help if I need it. At least as far as the "disability" stuff oes...I had to tell many people that my medical care was between me and my docs. People in AA like to think they know alot wink. People are only trying to help though, keep that in mind most people in AA do what they do out of love......