I'm sorry about what happened today. I don't think it is that unusual for a T to ask, "Do you want to come back?" or "are you coming back next week?" even after awhile of seeing the T. Sometimes my T will ask that after we have a particularly tumultuous session-- of course he knows I'm coming back, but it is sort of a banter-type thing.

Has there been an issue in your therapy with boundaries? Has she discussed your boundaries with you?