[I've driven by but never said anything about it. I think it's a quite normal thing to do with the curiosity and all about our T's. I'm of a different school of thought than a lot of people here who say that it should be talked about. I think a lot of that curiosity (is this a new T?) resolves itself as you get to know the T. I never mentioned I did the drive by because I didn't want him to think I was stalking him.I was curious once, did it once and that was it. I never brought it up. I doubt she would know it was you unless you stopped right in front of her house for a good long look and she happened to be staring out the window at that exact time.