went and got a perm on tuesday. it was already a bad day...triggering too due to phone call from the dying father. went out and got a perm and i don't know what the woman was told, because i sure didn't get what i wanted. i got this kinky, cork-screw curly mess...frizzy too.

well, today i figured out why i'm freaking out so bad about it. it looks just the same way the hair did when we lived in hawaii as a teen...very bad, crazy time. figured it out, not have to figure out how to be ok with it. i took a flat iron to it today and it doesn't look half bad.

thanks y'all.

kd