AG, I can only assume that my posts did not come across in the spirit in which they were given. I thought I could offer some insight into the issues you brought up and I think I must have made a 45 degree turn in the wrong direction for you to have taken it all this painfully. For that I apologize. I have no desire to rehash or go point for point with you. I don't see how that would be productive. All I ask is that you accept my declaration that things got misinterpreted. I never meant to say that you are too sweet. I never meant to say that your post was entirely about Cat. I never meant to trigger your highly sensitive nature and rub your nose in anything. I never implied that I am without my own insecurities and issues. But what I am saying is, what was your intention in posting this? What response were you looking for that I was so off base about? Why are you picking apart every single thing I've said and turned it into some kind of insult or negativity? Why are you assuming the worst of me? You say your approachable, but when I approached this post, you rejected it in its entirety. Ppl. perceive different things, ppl have different points of view, ppl have a variety of insights to offer. Mine were met with total hostility. Why? Instead of just saying, sorry Tgr, you are completely off base, you attacked me personally and every single thing I had to say. You chose the path of being completely insulted and misunderstood. Why is that? I can say that for me, this will not stop me from making further posts. I wish to continue to communicate with you about any and all subjects. It is normal real life behavior to have discussions about opinions, observations and conclusions. I hope we can do that throughout this post. I don't "know" you AG, only what you post. So my interpretation of you is somewhat limited and I try to work within those perameters as best I can to offer you any advice and insight I can. I have certain personality traits that may clash with yours, but that's life. Lets work with each other. I'm always willing to explain my statements in further detail, but as you can see, my responses are long winded as it is.
I hope this doesn't change our relationship AG. I don't want there to be any mistrust or animosity between us. Forgive me my transgressions as I forgive you yours. We are sisters and ought to treat each other as such.
Thinking of you. TgrsPurr, xoxo
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