I hope things are a little better for your now, this thread has really made me think - I am going to discuss boundaries with my T on monday if i can stay non-chicken LOL I am also going to discuss the self harm thing - I guess if i carry on this way i am denying myself help at the times when i most need it - thankyou for making me think maybe a little clearer - take care P7

I dont think you're a chicken, I think you are hurt and wondering what to do next - i am glad you have your pdoc to discuss this with.