P7, you're such a sweetie. it's obvious to me that you are a really caring and generous soul around these boards .

let me know how your discussion with T goes on monday! i have calmed down from the hurt of my T now, and am feeling ok. pdoc returns on the 12th, but he said he would try to talk to me before then. you are right that if we don't talk about the self harm thing, then we are denying ourselves help when we most need it. i think it's such an important thing to be open about... that you need to be certain about how it will be met, and to know that those actions will still keep you safe.