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Originally Posted by pinksoil
To say I don't have a connection with anyone else in my life except T seems like a pretty off base considering you wouldn't know that I have a husband and quite a few friends.
I don't know why people think that my feelings are so beyond grief--
nothing fills that hole.
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I know that you have a husband and you have said many times things that led me to believe that you aren't that close to him. I meant close connections not just connections.
You were in therapy before your dad died. This means that you have issues, issues that certainly can complicate your grief.
I didn't say that close relationships with others would replace the relationship that you had with your dad. Other close relationships would help you to not overly depend on that relationship with your dad.
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Last edited by Sannah; Jan 02, 2009 at 02:50 PM.
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