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Originally Posted by pinksoil
I highly doubt you would be terminated for this. However, I am sort of confused about what happened? I am guessing you drove by out of curiosity, but:
Did you stop in front of the house and stare at it?
Did you beep the horn? I'm only asking this because I'm wondering how you would think she know you drove by.
Is her house in your area and you could pass it off as just passing through the neighborhood?
Are you planning to discuss this with her or are you just afraid she will bring it up?
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Well, I parked in front of her house, got out and waved my arms and called her name repeatedly, but she didn't come out.
I'm kidding! I'm hesitant to give details because I'm paranoid she reads this board. I was just curious, like the other posters have suggested, am curious about her "other life", etc. Though, I think she deserves privacy and just like she doesn't give out her home phone number (I assume!) to clients, I think she'd prefer that clients don't drive by her house. I knew she wasn't home at the time, or I wouldn't have considered it. She lives in a place where it would be hard to claim I was driving through the neighborhood.
I don't plan to bring it up. My fear is that she will somehow know, bring it up, and I will be mortified. I thought about lying if she did bring it up, but I'm kind of transparent. I won't do it again because it didn't feel good and the worry is making me sick, so I guess that can be considered a positive. I don't want her to think I'm a stalker, although I suppose that behavior is a bit stalkerish.
I've read some other threads about people being terminated and I just sit here thinking Oh My God Oh My God Oh My God ... WOWWW, that would hurt!