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Originally Posted by krazibean
In my opinion, I think support isn't just about saying what the person wants to hear. I know i'm going to get attacked for this, but i don't think what 02221983 first said was unsupportive. I think he was just sending suggestions about how to deal, and a good one at that. When your T can't be there, go to the people closest to you in your life. I can see getting a little defensive when he said you spend a lot of time thinking about your T (cause i would too, because it's true), but i actually think redirecting your focus is a healthy thing to do. He was even supportive at the end suggesting to take care of yourself. I'm not sure why everyone jumped on that. Thats just my opinion, and i'm sure since it doesn't agree with most of yours i will get bashed
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I agree too. But I am sure Pink knows this ( i am not trying to speak for you pink). It can still be hard though (I have only been in therapy since Oct but I miss my need and need her right now as I really have no one else I can talk to right now). I am not expecting a call from my T but I am sitting here really needing her right now...I can distract myself all day but that doesnt take away from the fact that I need her. I am not sure to the extent to which pink needs hers, but its all relative. I dont know I just think she is entitled to rant here---its her thread. I assume she is doing other things than sitting by a phone waiting. I am sure she is just posting intermittenly to update everyone. I dont know.... I think I am going to stop here...