 i'm sorry you are so uneasy about what this year will bring for you. can you try to imagine for just a moment...this could be the year that the clouds will lift and the sun will shine for you again. 
why can i suggest that? it happened to me. (at that time i could hardly see to the end of a day).
just keep determined to regain your strength... believe it can happen to you... envision how you would feel. just take one day at a time... keep a journal...it will reveal many things about yourself.
i did a gratitude list and as time went on i found more and more things to be grateful for. i'm not sugarcoating how you feel for i know it is real.  my post is a gentle suggestion of things that helped me get from hell to happiness.
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Do not let your fire go out, spark by irreplaceable spark, in the hopeless swamps of the approximate, the not-quite, the not-yet, the not-at-all. Do not let the hero in your soul perish, in lonely frustration for the life you deserved, but have never been able to reach. Check your road and the nature of your battle.
The world you desired can be won. It exists, it is real, it is possible, it is yours..~Ayn Rand
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