sure my wife abuses me all the time .... lol

My mother was a classic narcissist though, who I believe only viewed others as a extension of herself in the since that she only cared what they could do for her or if she could gain her agenda through use of them.

Now, it would be hard for me to say how she is, since I have'nt lived with her since I was 12 .... though I think she has changed alot and feel she is probably reflecting more and more on the past now ... I cant say for sure

We had a sit down one time and I dug up some old bones with her, she listened but I did not expect anything from it, just wanted to fill in a few blanks for her..... I dont really like to live in the past, but I guess I still had a hidden agenda

We actually get along great, but that may be due to our limited contact. Even as a child I loved her as a broken dog would love their master, none the less.