Hi Raynaadi,

Im not sure if Levi reads what I've quoted from your post.

Levi is turned up full volume and the door cracked open right? wink wink Just checking .

I see your very grateful for all you have Raynnadi and caring and intimacey and laughter and spending time with one another and holding each other are blessings indeed.

a little recap. You, A woman crazey in love with a high sex drive and your man experiencing erectile dysfunction with a lot of worries and concerns for the women in his life and sexual intercourse has stopped for about eight months. He' s there for you emotionally not sure how physical he is with you.

Well Raynaadi I don't think you should be left crying . It would be my hope that even though your Beau has no intrest for himself right now and is scared and or depressed , that hes just crazey into pleasing you .

You know its kinda like this.

A great chef knows to serve his special guest a good hearty four courses before joining his love for the fifth and final course for the evening. Even if he can't join in for the whip cream .

I've had a number of expereinces in my life time prior to my current hiatus. I have had men not know they were on top of a gold mine. They didn't even ask how I got there . they just assumed all they had to do was hop on. I'd hint around that I could have more than one . The most the genrous ones wanted to give was two.

I never asked for more. Im not greedy . Im one of these silent types that just takes a wait and see stance . One day I hope Im bowled over by someone . Im hoping to find someone crazey into me.

Because I love pleasing a man I love. Nothing gives me more pleasure . I get pleasure out of touching . I wish men could have as many orgasams as women can in such a short amount of time . I would try but they just could not .

I don't know what its like for men with this problem . But geepers they must like to be touched and they must expereince some level of something.

Sex is important for you . Your in your prime and man wow... what a gift for some man to have an orgasmic woman. It doesn't take much energy to lift a finger or use some other device . And he can do it for you . You should not have to do this alone by yourself and cry.

Can you have a talk about this with him?

I've never put much stock into God boxes , Raynaddi , Thats probably why I haven't gotten much of a return. I finnally made one three months ago . I was in the kitchen at the time when I made my decision to try it . My eye landed on a tea pot . so I have several little requests that have been steeping for sometime . I actually opened it up to read a few right before you went on vaction.

Pretty funny reading them . One said .

Thanks for John. I thought who's John?

Another said , Thanks for Charles . Uhhh Uhhh.

another said, oh , I can't share that one , private.

another said , Dear G. I would like to go on a vacation but I don't know where yet. last one was in 1991.

anyway . It occured to me that you could start one. These pieces of prayer and hopes and dreams could just easily not make it into the box Right? a few end up in say a sock drawer inside of a sock of your fella' or his boxer's in his drawer . Roll one up inside an emptied herbal capsule and slip it into his yogurt . One in his hat . saying I have a special surprise for you . and it involves a blindfold. and place a feather with the note. LOL LOL LOL ...

Your sponsor can help you with this...

Okay Raynnadi. You can turn Levi's volume back down now.

Thats all I have to share for now.

lots of hugs

Patricia