(((((MissCharlotte)))))
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Originally Posted by MissCharlotte
"I DONT' KNOW WHAT THAT MEANS. WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?"
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I say this sometimes too. To my kids, usually. I just really want to understand what they are talking about, not annoy them.
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IT MEANS I DON'T WANNA BE HERE SHITHEAD! I DONT' WANT TO HEAR YOU SOUND LIKE A POMPOUS ***.
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Hmmmm, maybe this is what my kids are thinking too.
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I don't think he really understands my experience.
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It sounds like he wants to understand, though.
I'm sorry therapy is so hard now.
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I know I am working through some really nasty stuff. But don't know how much of it I can bear to see.
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Do you need to slow down? Do something else in therapy for a while and return to this when you are able?
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There is a part of me that really feels like I can't move further with T.
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That makes me sad, because all you have written about him and you. All the wonderful and connected things you have described. Can you share this thought with him and see what he says? I did reach a point with my first therapist that I could not move beyond. I was stuck. So I left her and found someone else who could move further with me. I have not regretted it. Do you think you are at a similar point? Or is it frustration from a disconnected and painful session?

