thanks for the reply...I have been feeling lonely, and I shouldn't rely on someone who does not truly care for me as a friend...I will keep your words in mind...this helps me think about other relationships in my life...there was another guy doing the same thing...I told him I wanted friendship...he said I could have whatever our relationship would turn out to be...basically he was saying...if I make a move on you...either you choose to accept it or not...I just want someone to hang out with...unfortunately...I find it harder to become close with women...