kathyanita, I want to thank you for pointing your observation that this is an example of good communication between members. I'm so happy to know that this is coming across to the reader. The fact that AG and I disagreed about certain things never stopped us from continued communication and apologies were made where needed. I adore AG and I want that to always be the spot light under which my posts to her are perceived. There's nothing wrong with questioning another poster, theirs nothing wrong with disagreeing with another poster and it's totally appropriate to express hurt and pain inflicted upon one's self for what another poster said,intended or not. AG stepped up to the plate, as did I and I believe we've come full circle in this thread. But to have someone else point out their observation of this reconciliation magnifies it all exponentially. I can't thank you enough. I'm grateful for your post. It says a lot about you as a person. And I'm looking forward to getting to know you better. TgrsPurr. xo