I have no intention of hijacking this thread, I just have a question that pertains to me and the whole gravitating to ppl similar to our parents.

I've not seen my parents in 20 years, I've had extensive counseling and treatment. I've not been in a serious relationship for a long time. Does this still make me susceptable to that gravitational pull. While I havent had many substitute male figures in my life, there have been some, good ones at that. Would I be more likely to gravitate to men like them or my father. I am my fathers daughter, always have been. But all those years of therapy has helped me to overcome many of the issues I've had with him. Thoughts anyone? TgrsPurr. xo