Bridgeboy, hunnybunny...You did the absolute right thing by being honest with this woman. You said she admitted she " likes to move from place to place to escape things. " That, in itself, should have been a big red flag to you, and your were dead on right to be concerned about fast paced intimacy, which seems to have been her goal.
Your inner voice, your intuition, your gut feelings...were all correct! YOU are one of those rare honest men of integrity and you acted according to your own value system. This is rare, and you will be a wonderful man for some lucky woman when the time is right.
Please remember, you are in no way responsible for this woman's reactions or change of personality. Do not punish yourself for this. You did good!
Love
Patty