Great post!

My T gave me a 'transitional object', a totem rock, at a time when I was totally and completely wigging out. Extremely helpful.

Consistency. She is so consistent. Also extremely helpful.

She says "I will be there with you". I am not sure which part of me this touches, but, when she says it, it is so helpful.

She doesn't ever push me to talk or to explain beyond my boundaries. Also extremely helpful.

These would be the major ones...I could probably think of more...