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Old Jan 03, 2009, 08:18 PM
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I'm sorry to hear this is causing frustration within your marriage.

Have you fully thought about why you don't wish to become pregnant, or even to have a baby in the house? While I fully respect your wishes for your own body, it does have a tint of something else, a deeper issue.

You may not wish to divulge anything more here, but I would suggest you seek counseling, maybe even couples counseling regarding this issue.

It's one thing to not want to go through childbirth, but that you say you don't want young children in the home tells me (and this is just my opinion) that you have some reasons for not wanting anyone younger than a pre-teen. Sounds like you're fearful.

I wish for you a good year, and a resolution to this dilemma.
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