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Raynaadi,

this is a post from Broken65 who posted in a new thread I made because your title change to Female sex drive did not show up on the main board .

sorry for the complication . Life is a journey and if you follow me you'll be in for a Long one....

from Broken 65

HI Sorry to hear about what you are going through. I have been married for 12 wonderful years and like you we have shared many losses and like you we both listen to Dr. Laura. It sounds like you pretty much understand what to do but need some confirmation. I agree you need to love him through this a lot of cuddling and re-assuring I have learned men want to fix things and if they can’t they feel helpless.. Yes this has physically happened to you but he is living it and can’t fix it for you. I truly believe if you continue to support and assure him everything is going to be ok things will happen naturally. The most important thing is communication you both need to talk about what is going on keep the communication open. Maybe if you give him a few things to do to make him feel extra strong a needed I think he needs to know he is being the best MAN he can be. I hope this helps a little bit I’m sure there will be a lot more advice to follow.

I truly wish you both the best and so sorry to hear about your sight.