yes, Minime, this is a great idea for a thread.

my pdoc tells me that he will look after me. when he says that, i feel so safe. i have a really strong urge to be independent of all others, not to rely on anyone, not to ask for care. but when he says that, he reaches the little girl inside of me who is craving for someone bigger and stronger to protect her from hurt. i can think 'this is someone to trust'.